Hello I really like this girl we been see each other for 4 months now she just told me she's over the relationship but still likes me?I really want her back I've been stressed out latery and I was acting all needy now she says she wants to be friends I there any possible way to get her back she used to tell me that I'm the best guys she's been with she's 29 and never been in love I'm 31 I always made her laugh now she doesn't want to know me I was thinking to send her some funny gifts to try and spark something again what should I do and do you think she will come back
Please help

There is you answer. You were being too needy. STOP smothering her. Nothing is more irritating than someone who is smothering you. Women hate it. Its aggrivating. Smothering can turn one the funniest sweetest guys into someone you really don't want to be around. It might be best for you to back off a bit. You might also try talking to her tell her that you know you've been a little clingy lately but you'd like to give it another try. But it may backfire in your face and she may just shut you down. Might just be best to back off a tad bit for now

Back off from her, and give other areas of your life, some much needed attention.

lickemlolly is correct. 100%.

You're lucky that she wants to remain friends. This might be a sign that she likes you, but just wants to see if you can back off and be normal. If you can pass her test, she MIGHT give you another chance.

I wouldn't bank on it, but I think you got about a 10% chance at best. The only way to succeed, is to do what lickem and talam said.

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Originally Posted by fingers14

Hello i really like this girl we been see eachother for 4 months now she just told me shes over the relationship but still likes me?i really want her back ive been stressed out latery and i was acting all needy now she says she wants to be friends i there any possible way to get her back she used to tell me that im the best guys shes been with shes 29 and never been in love im 31 i always made her laugh now she doesnt want to know me i was thinking to send her some funny gifts to try and spark something again what should i do and do you think she will come back
please help

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Thanks you guys its pretty weird for me it's the first time being dumped and I'm 31 I've always treated girls pretty bad and then dumped them so I finally find I girl who I treat nice and look what happens... im going to play it cool and not ring and text her but sent her something funny that would make her happy just has friends and try to play it cool because I would love to have her back in my life for sure