Is the best way to impress a guy to ignore him and act independent or to talk to him and be friendly? :confused:

... why can't you do both?

You can be nice, friendly, even flirty... and still be independent. As a guy, I love girls who flirt with me, but seem unattainable. I MUST have girls like that.

Girls who throw themselves at me, at first, are fun... but it kind of loses that attractiveness after a little bit. It's girls who flirt but then seem independent that seem extremely attractive.

Relationships are a dance, aren't they? Our experiences may be completely irrelevant for your situation. Meanwhile, I'd vote the headon but not desperate approach. You have to be communicating for anything to happen, and ignoring is not communicating.

I agree with IZ

Do both things. Be pick your moments be flirty and times and offish at times

There is no real way to impress someone. There could be lots of reason why we like someone

Be yourself, as there is no need to impress someone. Get to know them.

I would certainly not be impressed by someone who ignores me or plays games to impress me.
Be yourself. They will either notice you or they won't.

Well,I agree with homegirl.its alwaz a communication that builds a relationship.ignoring sumone means creating more distance.. so be yourself,and show him you care for him.thats what I think will work out.
Good luck.

Well u should never ignore a guy that you like because if he likes or wants to impress you he could take it the wrong way and think you don't like him! The best way to be is yourself boys like that cause then they no u are comfortable around them. The bottom line is just go with what your heart tells you.