Have recently had more contact with my "friend". Yes she told me that she needed some time and we are "friends" yet she told me that she does not want to be in a relationship that she cannot get out of right now. I told her that right now I am here for her, yet she keeps giving me signs and statements that she does want more. I recently had to leave on business and before I left she pleaded to not die on her. I then just got back yesturday and she texted me some sexual flavored texts last night. Please transcribe these for me. She was going to go shopping for a snowboard, yet could not afford one right now. I texted her that "you will and to keep going because you have alot of inner strength. She texted back "thanks rambo" and I told her she has spunk so keep going. She then said to me "not yours lol" I just responed back then with a funny joke and she did laugh and sent the joke to her friends. I then ended the texting with a have a good night and I will see you soon. She texted back "k will do you too". I have had several cases of her sending these texts with sexual signs of affection and she comes on strong and then plays that she cannot commit since she is ending her divorce and cannot play. I know that her sexual tension is building as well as myself. Advice?

I did receive a text in the morning from her stating that it was snowing at her place. I thanked her for giving me a call and again I will see her soon.

Was this a sonar ping to see if I was still on the map. Let me know what you would suggest is the next course of action.

Thank you again for your assistance!

Friends only, that's it. Anything more is unrealistic.

As usual, Talan is correct.

Friends... as long as this thing goes.. I think she in it for her to use you...

I agree its friends.

I know you don't like the replys and you want it be something more
But it isn't


You sound young? You read way too much into text man. She seems playful that's about it
Your getting your hopes up

Leave her before you get really really hurt.
There isn't a bigger pain than thinking someone likes you then having them go off with someone else.

Red flag alert!! she is getting a divorce she is using u 2 get over what she is in now. U are her rebound guy... doesnt sound to me like she is interested just looking 4 someone to draw her attenyion off what she really doesn't want 2 face

I agree with everyone else. It sounds like you may be the rebound guy. If you jump on your emotions you may just be setting yourself up for a fall.

Maybe I'm an odd woman, but when I want to send a text with "sexual meaning" I know what to say... And darlin, she's not saying it.

I'm sorry. Maybe she has in other texts, but the ones that you shared in this post aren't sexually charged.

I agree with duck22... please take care of your heart. Don't set yourself up for a fall. You deserve better.

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

Maybe I'm an odd woman, but when I want to send a text with "sexual meaning" I know what to say.... And darlin, she's not saying it.

I'm sorry. Maybe she has in other texts, but the ones that you shared in this post aren't sexually charged.

I agree with duck22... please take care of your heart. Don't set yourself up for a fall. You deserve better.

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I can't give more rep to Historian here, but I would for this post. Nothing about ANY of those texts were sexually charged.

Unless you are referring to the "k will do you too"... what she means is: "Ok. I will. You do that too". She doesn't really mean... that she will "do you too". Lol. I hope that's not what you meant, anyway.

I agree with everyone else, if you try to take things farther than friendship, then mark my words you are setting yourself up for a really big fall... been there, done it, won't ever do it again!