We have been together for a few years now. I was wondering what might be the causes for the following: he in never interested in my day, valentines day birthdays go by for me without much notice, he has no compassion if I am upset or need him (which is not very often) he tells me to get over it. Also he ignores things I ask of him, he constantly finds things to criticize me about causing fights for no reason, he never looks at me (if I dress up or dress in something sexy he doesn't notice. We don't have any affection except me sleeping close to him at night which I do and I usually get his back. We don't kiss or hold hands and it has been months since we have had sex every time I try he is tired or stressed or not in the mood or a whole list of other reasons (and I know in other relationships he was never this way). He is never available at work when I call, he doesn't even call me anymore, and he works very late. He locks his computer and phone and vehicle when he gets home and will sometime just go to bed. In the past he has called me every name in the book and tells me I'm not good enough. Nothing has ever happened to cause a rift in the marriage. He is a very strong Baptist so I don't think he's cheating. The first several months of our relationship he was nothing like this always complementing me kissing and showing affection. What's happened? Thank you