My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and all the sudden while she was at the gym she met this girl. And now all she talks about is how this "girl" listens to her, how they "connected" and even that the thought about kissing her passed through her mind. I told her is normal to think other women are attractive and that is just curiosity... but she says that, if she hangs out with her she might end up making out with her... should I be worry? :confused: :confused: :confused:

You shouldn't worry. You should just exit the relationship. No more relationship, no more worries.

She has just admitted to desiring to be unfaithful to you. "Walk and Block", walk out of her life and block her out of your mind.

There are a lot of girls out there who would desire to be in a faithful relationship, full of love and trust. Why short yourself in this journey through life? You shouldn't.

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Originally Posted by jrebel7

You shouldn't worry. You should just exit the relationship. No more relationship, no more worries.

She has just admitted to desiring to be unfaithful to you. "Walk and Block", walk out of her life and block her out of your mind.

There are a lot of girls out there who would desire to be in a faithful relationship, full of love and trust. Why short yourself in this journey through life? You shouldn't.

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Yes, I'd follow his advise. But First you got to explain it to her. Let her know that she's being unfaithful and that you want a serious thing (I don't how serious but though)... keep in mind that if both of you are aware of what a relationship is and you make some sort of commitment, is because ultimately you care to work on every obstacle that put in your life. If u care a little tell her so that both of you learn something on the way... this our life full of changes for the good of all

She could also be giving you a hint about some things that she is missing in her relationship with you that she might be seeking to have fulfilled with someone else.

Please communicate with her as to what you are thinking. Having good, open communication is paramount to having a successful relationship with someone.

Just a thought.

It could just be feelings I think its normal for that to happen in everyone's lifes maybe talk to her more about issues she has in the end she's been with you for a long time so you shouldn't worry too much its probably just an emotion that will pass

As a bisexual girl, I find your question incredibly offensive. People don't 'think about going bi'. They discover they are bisexual. It's not a choice.

Tell her how you feel and what you think this mean's. Discussing it can either make or brake your relationship, but if it brakes then it was going to happen ayway