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OK so there is this guy I really like alott and he says he loves me but I don't think he does for reall. He never calls me he never asks me to hang out but only like 3 times, I'm # 9 on hiz top friends and he said we were friends with B and he wasn't going out with me because his best friend erick still likes me and he doesn't want to take me away from him!! So is he running away from me or am I just weird!

Were you ever dating erick? Or did erick ever at least ask you out or are you sure he liked you?

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Originally Posted by justcurious55

were you ever dating erick? or did erick ever at least ask you out or are you sure he liked you??

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Well I was dating erick... then I broke up w/ him and I always liked hiz friend I know that sounds wrong but yes its true

Ok how old are you? It sounds like you are young...

He may really be considering his best friends feelings. Its not cool to date your friends ex unless they say its o and you know them well enough to know they truly mean it. Maybe it's time to set erick up with a new girl. Haha

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Originally Posted by justcurious55

he may really be considering his best friends feelings. its not cool to date your friends ex unless they say its o and you know them well enough to know they truly mean it. maybe it's time to set erick up with a new girl. haha

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Haaha thanks u make me feel betr :]]

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Originally Posted by rockerchick26

Ok how old are you? It sounds like you are young...

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Well lol I am young I'm 13 but he says he loves me and I know audults say its young love but... yea... idk I just need help!!

I don't want this to sound harsh, but I think he is more into you for the friends with benefits stuff. I don't know the whole situation, but I'm twice your age and had a lot of experience with guys. The trick to getting the guy to go after you is to act like you don't care and let HIM chase you... If he doesn't come running after you, then he isn't worth your time!
You have lots of time to date and PLENTY of time before you need to get into a sexual relationship. It just complicates things and gets us girls more emotionally involved. So stop stressing and enjoy dating and having guys chase you... its one of the benefits of being a girl!

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Originally Posted by rockerchick26

I don't want this to sound harsh, but I think he is more into you for the friends with benefits stuff. I don't know the whole situation, but I'm twice your age and had a lot of experience with guys. The trick to getting the guy to go after you is to act like you don't care and let HIM chase you...If he doesn't come running after you, then he isn't worth your time!
You have lots of time to date and PLENTY of time before you need to get into a sexual relationship. It just complicates things and gets us girls more emotionally involved. So stop stressing and enjoy dating and having guys chase you...its one of the benefits of being a girl!

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Thank you soooooo much rockerchick