Has anyyone here or no anyone who has had an abortion and regrets doing it? Please help me I need people to tell me if they have because I'm having second thought!! Please Help! Pretty much I want people to help me c how bad it is.. so that I will change my mind..

Everyone I've ever known who's had an abortion has had significant emotional problems. That's not to say that the abortion is strictly to blame but ti definitely plays a part. In my opinion, that alone is enough to argue against having an abortion.

Hello Babi:

It's not as simple as all that.

My wife had an abortion years ago. We've since had children. I wonder who their older brother or sister would have been. Yes, I regret having made that decision. I'd love to have had more kids. But, we didn't think enough about it. However, we were married and fully capable of raising our child.

My wife wasn't 16 and looking forward to raising her child by herself, and having to give up her future for her child. If that WAS the case with her, she should have had it done.

excon

Hello,
I don't want to scare you or anything but if you have abortion there's a possibility that you may never be able to have kids again and then you might regret it look you could always have the kid and then give it up for adoption at least then you can mve on with your life and the baby inside of you can just have a life and if later in life you regret it you could aslways look for it and maybe be apart of it's life.

Thanks.. I think I no what I'm going to do!! And that is to have the baby!

hey, i just wanted to tell you that i have been reascherhing for a projetc and im having a debate in my class for against abortion i think you should keep the child !!! ya im only 14 but ive seen, read and know that abortion is not the way!! rember god loves you and he willl help you throught this anyway i hope this helps!!

god bless,
luvgodnottheworld

I'm a guy... so I have no say in the abortion ordeal. However, I do have 3 friends who have had abortions (chemical abortion via pill) and they don't regret it. Of course, the entire ordeal was mentally agonizing and they went through a rough time, but when brought up, they said that they would have done it again... as they were not ready to have a child.

Of course people will tell you both sides... that it's murder and that the baby should be kept... and also that it's your life and you should do what is best for you. Whichever side you choose, it's up to you. Do some research, seek a counselor if you wish (many planned parenthood, school, hospitals have them).

Just my $0.02

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Originally Posted by BabiGurl_1616

Has anyyone here or no anyone who has had an abortion and regrets doing it?? please help me i need ppl to tell me if they have bcuz im having second thought!!! please Help!! Pretty much i want ppl to help me c how bad it is .. so that i will change my mind ..

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hi there was just to say I had an abortion in July and it's the worst thing I ever done. I'm 25 so doubt age is even the issue... I've 2 sons and thought an abortion was the best thing to do at the time.

I think about it every day and wonder how big I'd be and as the due date approaches I'm feeling lower and lower.

if I got pregnant again I woyuld never do it again.
this has ruined my life and I'm so scared I won't be able to get pregnant again!! X x x x :confused::confused::confused::confused::confused

Hiaaa Hun! I am 15 and i have a abortion about 6 months ago... the farther was my first love but then shortly after that we broke up because i cheated and i regreted the abortion so much. Because i wanted to have his child. But if it was a one night stand or your still with the lad then you dont have to worry really. Because if it was a one night stand the baby would want to know who its farther is and it would be really unfair on the child but if its a lad your still with then when your ready have another child. It wernt that you didnt want children... its your to young to cope. xxx