Hi all! My divorce was only final a year ago, but I was separated for 3 years before that... just out of curiosity.. if any of you have remarried, how long did you wait? Im considering getting married again, and I do uderstand that the time in between is different for everyone, Im just curious. Ive heard everything from 2 months to "never again!" LOL!

This is a personal choice you will have to make. Me personally, its was over 2 years before I found someone. Your choice will have to be someone you care for and that the other will care for you. I live by the 50/50, it's a partnership and all must be flexible in making decisions. Just my thoughts.:)

Hi,
Personally, I was divorced after 7 yrs of marriage, then remarried... been 28 yrs now, to a wonderful woman.
It took me several months before I actually started "dating", after the initial separation, then took me a year to tell her I love her, then another year to get married again.
Two years for me. (Actually, three years from the time I was separated). In VA, one has to wait a year before the divorce is final... or was at that time.
Best of luck.

Just follow your heart and don't fight your feelings. I have lost someone because I fought mine. I won't fight them again unless that person is wrong for me.