My husband and I have been married for 1 1/2 years, we have been together on and off for 11 years, we have two children, a 9 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. Recently he received a child support letter from a women whom I have known since we were 5, and we used to be close friends. The child is about to be 10 years old. My husband did admit to sleeping with her 1 time, with protection. Around the time that this happened, we were starting our senior year in high school, and about 8 months into our relationship, me and the girl were really close then too. When the baby was about 2 years old, rumors surfaced that the baby was his, I asked her if it was, and she told me no, his cousin asked, and she told her no also. My husband asked, and he was also told no, she said it was for someone else, and she made that very clear to us. We left it alone. Now all of a sudden my husband gets this letter in the mail notifying him that she has filed child support. I have so many mixed feelings right now, I feel sad, hurt, betrayed. I mean I love my husband now, but if I would have found the truth out in the beginning I don't think I would have stayed in this relationship. Right now I am not sure what I should do, part of me wants to get my kids and leave, part of me wants to stay, but I don't know if I can accept this child being a part of our lives. I understand that the child might be his, but I am his wife, we have our kids together, and the family that we have created. I know I sound selfish, but that is how I feel. If anyone has gone through something similar, please help.