Smacked in the face with truth
My guy is in another country and visa has been an issue. I found a lawyer to assist me in getting visa. In order to get visa I have had considered getting a second job to pay for the legal assistance. I would clean houses on the side for fast money from the pay I would make. When I told him I found legal help and what I would do to counter the expense he told me that he didn't want anyone to know that I was cleaning houses on the side to get him a visa. He was against it after it was him that said he needed one. Yeah might sound stupid but I guess it was this for me to see that he has no plans of being with me to turn down what was discussed before. Don't know if anyone has anything to say cause I pretty much answered my indirect question. Just needed to let it out someplace and this was location to silently vent my feelings.