I love sex and I love to give my partner all the pleasure they want.

I started for touching him on his and he liked, after some time I figured that he would like to play on there, so I did. I bought a toy and we both enjoy it. After that we always exchange positions (I am the boy and he is the girl).

He also likes to wear tongs and baby dolls when we have sex and when he wants to play gay, his penis is harder than ever and he only wants to play girl, if you know what I mean?

When we are having sex and I start to say to him that I will get a guy to F* his while he is on me and I notice that he does not resist and come.

I asked him several times if he is gay and I was worried about another guy who works with him and I think he is gay and he is interested on my boyfriend.

We had terrible fights because of that and he keeps saying that I am out of my mind and saying that he is not gay. When we fight he says he will never more allow me to play with him, however we always end up doing again because we both like.

I really think that if he goes forward to have a real sexual act with a man he will enjoy a lot and I am afraid to loose him.

Do you have any opinion about him?

If you ask me he is gay. Or I guess he could be "Bi" but In my pointless opinion if you like to be the "girl" then you are gay. I've always thought guy who say they are "Bi" are just lying to themselves.

I wouldn't jump to the "gay" or "bisexual" idea... he could just be curious. Different things turn different people on. Some people like to be chained and dragged and whipped, some people like to wear diapers and pretend they're a baby... some people like to act like a girl. To each his own.

Now, if you approached him about it and he says he's not... stick with the idea that he's not. Constantly asking him and accusing him of being gay will only push him further and put a strain on the relationship.

If the whole thing bothers you, then I suggest you find a new boyfriend who isn't into that.

Maybe bi... I see a transvestite fantasy thing going on here with him and those guys are rarely ever gay.

Now if you are fine with it then have fun together... lots a perfectly straight guys like butt play.

There are thongs made for men that aren't the least bit feminine. Maybe he likes those... there are a growing number of men that do. And whose wives buys them for them.


There is a pretty big leap from playing with you to going with a guy. Enough I would think you don't have to worry.

Some men enjoy being infantile during sex with a female dominant as a powerful sexual fetish. That has nothing to do with homosexuality. He said he is not gay... seems he has no reason at this late time to lie to you to protect his manly image. :)

Did you start something kinky and now you are uncomfortable?

Cordially,

I think this is about you, and your own insecurities, and has nothing to do with him. Don't blow a good thing, by being insecure.

There is only a problem if YOU don't like it otherwise this is a purely different sexuality. Others have said the same-so he likes being a girl? You like being the boy-who cares-good for you and him-keep up the good work!

Thanks... I feel much better now... we have such a great sexual life together... we make love everyday at least once, but normally two times a day and it just keep getting better.

Thanks...