Why is my mother angry all the time
My mother is turning 65 next month. I'm an adult who lives about 150 miles away from her. My little sister moved in with here for about 9 months. She just moved out and rented an apartment. The problem with my mom is that she talks really bad about me with my little sister and my big sister. Then she turns to me and talks really bad about them. She then call my big sister and talks about me and my little sister. I loved my grandmother so much, I practically grew up with her, with her acting as my mother. Last month I made her a flower arrangement, that everyone thought it was fantastic. It was very expensive too. And my art skills are advanced. She saw it and said it was very pretty. As soon as I left, she started mocking it, saying that the colors didn't match. My mother is not familiar with the color wheel and contrast colors, but she thought they didn't match. She is always bitter with us, the 3 sisters, but worships a brother whom she cooks for and is always in a nice mood with. She is always screaming at us. If we try to say something, like we have in the past, she starts crying and playing victim and my day get furious and threatens to kick us out next time we visit. I wish I could tell her that my grandma loves that arrangement, just like she use to love the roses I always took her when she was alive. I can't say anything! It's just sad.