So I swear I'm not snooping. But, I've had a really weird start to this relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year. I do trust him but on his myspace it showed he was still single and had his ex as number 1. Then I asked him about it and kind of made him change it. Then I was setting up a Facebook account with a friend of mine after the myspace thing which was like six months ago. We typed in both of our boyfriends names in and came across mine. He goes on daily. And showing he's single and the person who talks to him most is his ex. I just don't know what to think. They had a bad breakup. I don't get overly jealous and I don't care about him talking to his ex just as long as she knows he's been with me. I just don't want him to hide me or anything

It sounds as though he's still not over her, and you are in a rebound relationship. I think it's time for you to date others and to tell him why. You can also still see him too, but it's time to start moving on. He can't have it both ways. He must know that he risks losing you if he keeps doing what he's doing. And maybe HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.

It sounds as though he's still in love with her and you are in a rebound relationship. I think it's time that you start seeing other people as he can't have it both ways. You should tell him why you are doing this and you can still see him too. Let him realize that he can lose you to someone else and gauge his response. It could also be that HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. You should soon know the answer.

Start by asking him about it, and go from there. Don't accuse him of anything, but his actions should make you reevaluate how into you he is. Don't be so in love, your blind to what he is doing, as its unnacceptable from my view, to be posting what he has, and not being honest with you. Yes, we call that a BIG RED FLAG. Protect yourself.

I was in your spot, and I played the ignorant idiot for over 2 years with her. Trust me from experience, get out now.

Well.. it's impossible to rationalize and jump to conclusions based on what has happened to other people but this is not something to just overlook, that's for sure.

But then again, what kind of talk was it with the ex, was it flirty or regular conversation?

You might be onto something, but ask him first..

Well... we are both new members... haha:) but trust me all the answers I am reading are wntirely true... it is supsicious and if I had to estiamte a percentage id say that 767% of the time you suspect something from a gf/bf then you so in your case senario I would be a little worried... talking to him is only going to want him to deny it andf want you to believe differently so find interests in new people just in case:)

Oh my bad... I totally meant only 77% of the time it is right so its right not to accuse him... just get prepared fast because it is probably what you think it is.