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  • Jan 23, 2008, 06:42 PM
    Wes01
    Never come across this one before so I'm abit stuck!
    So I met this girl in a club and we had a bit of a kiss and a dance as you do.
    Im based in the uk and she just moved here from america about 5 months ago.

    Anyway finally after a week of texts we meet up and have this fantastic night out.
    A few drinks, dinner and drinks again to end... got on really well and kissed and held hands after. Called after to make sure she got home as she hasn't been here long.

    Now in this night she mentioning she here for abit (over a year) and she got this big interview but she working so its all bit up in the air.. and that she a girl that's abit free and all but had a boyfriend before she came here...

    So anyway texted her in the day and didn't get a reply until 11pm at night. That was Sunday.
    Its wed and I texted to see how things are going and she hasn't text at all for the first time.
    Leaving texts apart as I don't want to seem over the top.

    The texting is always a thing with me.. see I text and she texts an hour or two hours apart..
    Is it me? I just like this girl and I don't want to see OTT because I'm not just I'm finding it hard to say how I feel over a text and I do want to see her again.

    Do I send her another text at some point or do I just Facebook the girl and tell her how I feel and that even if she doesn't want anything I still want to see her as I think she great.

    HELP
  • Jan 23, 2008, 09:18 PM
    rockerchick26
    Stop calling, texting, and don't search her out on Facebook! This will probably be hard for you to do, but I think you need to wait for her to contact you. If you let her come to you, she will want you even more. Besides, if you keep trying to contact her when she is isn't returning your texts, she may get the impression that you are clingy or controlling. Just play it cool... It drives girls crazy! There is a chance that she may still have a boyfriend back home and that she's lonely... just be careful!
  • Jan 26, 2008, 06:25 AM
    TrueFaith
    Yeah man I know you probable like getting text. It makes you feel safe probable. She may still have the boyfriend

    Leave her alone. Let her come running to you. Never chase women there not worth it let them come to you :) its much more fun

    This is what they think if you keep texting..

    Look at this guy he always text me. Wow I know that no matter what he is always going to text me. They get cocky

    Its always a power play. You have to always be on top


    Regards

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