First of all, just wanted to say hello and my name is Ed.

Me and my girlfriend are 16 years old and we are both virgins.. We have tried having sex twice, but I can't seem to penetrate her vagina hard enough. I looked at her vagina opening, and I noticed that its very small hole around the size of a dime (maybe tad smaller), and its covered by skin (I think its her hymen)

I have giving her pleasure by using my fingers, I can get 2 fingers in there, but there absolutely no room for nothing else, and if I do try to spread my fingers, to kind of spread her vagina it hurts her, and I don't want to hurt her so I stop.. I was kind of wondering if this is normal for a virgin girl, being her vagina opening is completely covered, although I can get 2 fingers in there.

Can someone please give me some advice... We have tried using lubricated condoms, we haven't tried using any other lubricants like KY Jelly or anything, but I was hoping we wouldn't have to.

Please educate me a little!

Thanks!

First, you two are too young for this kind of fooling around and secondly, we cannot tell you what to do as you are both underage and that would be contributing to the corruption of a minor.

Wait until you two are over 18 and then give us a ring. Ok?

Here's the best way I can put it.

If you don't know HOW to do it, chances are, you're not ready for it...

Yes, please just wait, also I did not hear anything about condoms, birth control pills an the other important things

It's your judgement as to what you decide. Though finish high school first with her and after you have income then you should decide what to go from there, however this is only my opnion. It's your life, you live it, I'm merely giving my opnion so don't blame me if my advice don't work. I'm just 1 year older.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Yes, please just wait, also I did not hear anything about condoms, birth control pills an the other important things

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I said we have used lubricated condoms, I did forget to mention she is on birth control...

But whatever, if no one will help o well. :mad: