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  • Jan 21, 2008, 01:50 PM
    clauia102
    Very Confused!
    I'm going to make a long story short. I met this guy through friends and at the time he had a girlfriend. A couple of months later I found out he broke up with his girlfriend which later I found out was not true. I emailed him but did not tell him who I was which he later found out. The emails were going on for about a week. He knew I liked him because I told him through emails. When I first met him I knew he liked me too that's what I was told.
    Anyway when he found out who I was he called me up. He said why did I not tell him who I was. I told him I wasn't sure If he would want to talk to me. He said he would. Anyway he said the e-mails were no big deal. It was the phone calls that I was making that was bothering him. At first I did not know what he meant. Than I started putting everything together. When I found out he was single this girl I knew who turned to be a gay and wanted me was pranking him so it could make it look like it was me so I wouldn't have any chance with him. At first I told him it was me and I was just nervous. The reason why I did that was because I didn't think he would believe me. He only met me once . He also was freaking out that the calls would still come in. After a awhile I started realizing I have to be honest with him. I called him he was so mad at me. HE told me he had a girlfreind. A girlfriend he keeps going back and forth for about tens years
    ANyway he told me the calls were still coming. I tried to assure him that it wasn't me. Actually I have to say, I was so upset that I really didn't tell him anything. So I just said goodbye to him. We didn't have the best conversation. I guess I can understand him being upset. I was thinking of just trying to talk to him one more time just to explain what really happened. I know IF I don't I will regret this very much. What SHould I do.



    A couple of days ago I had a dream that I was at his house and he gave me a piece of toast so don't know if that was a sign of anything..
  • Jan 21, 2008, 02:23 PM
    Suelle383
    He has a girlfriend now. He doesn't want to be bothered. Just leave him alone. Anything more you do we'll just make you look stupid.
  • Jan 21, 2008, 03:20 PM
    clauia102
    Thank you for responding.I'm sorry I did not explain myself well. There is an event coming up that I will see him. He will be alone. THat's when I will want to say something or see how he reacts towards. Me. I would never contact him now..
  • Jan 21, 2008, 04:17 PM
    friend4u178
    Like Suelle says he has a girlfriend so forget about him. You got caught playing a silly game so learn from that and in the future play with a straight bat.
    As they say "plenty of fish in the sea"

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