Me and my xboyfriend broke up about 3 months ago. But I still really like him. So one day I asked him who he liked and he told me. And I was crushed that it wasn't me.
And then a rumor spread that I told everyone who he liked!:mad:
I was upset and I tried to talk to him but he wouldn't say anything to me.
When I see him at school he pretends I'm not there.
And every time I here people talk about him, I get butterflys.
And then since everyone thought I spread the rumor, all his friends started to hate me to.
And the girls I hate more then anyone started to like him.
I can't stand him and I think I hate him, but he is all I think about...

Hun you're just going to have to leave him alone. It's evident that he is still really immature. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to just act like he doesn't bother you. Don't talk to his friends, don't try to talk to him, and don't try to make him see that you didn't do anything wrong. You just have to leave him alone. It's going to be hard at first, but once he sees that you aren't bothered by it anymore, he may come around. Just let him be the first one to talk to you this time. If you do all of these things you won't feel rejected and hurt when he acts like he doesn't see you and so on. Keep a smile on your face and don't act mad. You're going to be fine.

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Originally Posted by nakiapet

me and my xboyfriend broke up about 3 months ago. but i still really like him. so one day i asked him who he liked and he told me. and i was crushed that it wasnt me.
and then a rumor spread that i told everyone who he liked!:mad:
i was upset and i tried to talk to him but he wouldnt say anything 2 me.
when i see him at school he pretends im not there.
and everytime i here people talk about him, i get butterflys.
and then since everyone thought i spread the rumor, all his friends started to hate me to.
and the girls i hate more then anyone started to like him.
i can't stand him and i think i hate him, but he is all i think about...

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Dang. Same here but it wasn't 3 months ago, more like 4-5. but for me. There's no rumor. Or anything. Just that he pretends he doesn't see me when I'm around him. I get butterflys when I hear people talking about him. I'd suggest joining something, like uhhh. Soccer? I chose basketball :] that kind of helped me :)

Hey I know how you feel and it sucks but hey there are plenty of other guys out there that are just as good as you may think he is there is even better than him you may think he is perfect but you just have to move on and don't let him drag you down... trust me that is the worst possible thing you could do .