On my previous post I talked about my crazy relationship... today I have managed to change my cell phone number and walk away... I feel scared, nervous, I don't know so many different emotions are present. I'm scared that I actually chose to get out but I'm sad that all this happened to me. I'm so sad... why did this relationship have such a horrible end? I have prayed everyday to give thanks for another day and also for strength. I'm so hurt. But I have to let go and give my daughter the best I can.
Even this morning I received nothing but insults from him. Did I do the right thing by changing my number, should I have just ignored his calls?

YES!
You did the CORRECT THING!! Do NOT go back to him. He will NOT CHANGE. He may tell you he will change; he may seem like he has changed to win you back, but DO NOT GO BACK TO HIM! He has problems; and that is why he is making you feel so low and insulting you. This seems like the exact situation I was in, I was dating my boyfriend for 5 years, officially, and I had known him for about 2 years before we started dating. Everything was perfect in the beginning; and then it started getting to insults, and, yelling, and all the verbal abuse. I thought "oh, this must be true, because if he REALLY LOVES me, then, he wouldn't say things like this to me." I finally had an eye opening experience, and realized, he's NOT the man I wanted to wake up the rest of my life with. I got a new cellphone number, I evicted him from my house (he lived with me). I told my work NOT to let him contact me, and to say I was no longer there, or whatever they had to do, I would ignore his E-mails (I wouldnt' even open, I'd just delete), and, it hurt, I'm not going to lie, but, I got over it quickly, and I'm with a new man, who I could not be happier with, and he treats me like the princess I am...

Word of advice to you, there are more and better men out there.
Don't let him do this to you.
Be STRONG. You have too, for your DAUGHTER and yourself. :)
Go out, have a girls night... watch movies at your house.

You did the right thing.

By doing so, you have been inducted into the Hall of Cell-phone-taker-chargers. We hereby welcome you into our ranks with open arms, a pat on the back, and an "atta girl!"

Life time membership has been applied and drawn in your name.

Good job. :)

Do I get a membership too? My ex was on my plan and I turned her phone off and got a new phone. :)

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Originally Posted by Delow84

Do I get a membership too? My ex was on my plan and I turned her phone off and got a new phone. :)

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I thought you would have memorized the anthem by now! The fanfare! The trumpets are singing your praise!

Of course you do.

Welcome to our ranks, we're glad you're here. ;)

Lol, definitely getting rid of that ability to call or be called is almost always the right thing to do.

I always sang the anthem in private but now I can let it out :)

Sing it, babe! It's the anthem of independence!

VERY HURT... you, too, will sing along with us members of the Hall of Cell-phone-taker-chargers... and you too will say with us, "I'm Not Afraid Anymore!!!!"

This has definitely been really hard for me... I want to speak to him so bad but I've done it all before. I've gone back insult after insult and nothing ever changes. I will always be guilty in his eyes and I can never forget the things and words that were said to me... I cried everyday more than anyone can imagine. I LOVE HIM AND HIS SON SO MUCH!! I WILL MISS HIS SON SO MUCH! I will continue to try to be strong with the help of the people that truly love me, my family, daughter, and friends... thanks guys... have a good weekend.

I have definitely been there veryhurt. Guilty until proven innocent. Talked down to and treated bad overall. But I still miss her, and love her. I cried so much at first, would wake up crying, scream my throat dry in the car etc. But it has gotten easier. So I know it will get easier with time, esp if you keep those people who trully love you close. :)

This is the worst feeling ever!! I cry myself to sleep, I cry in the shower, I cry in the car, I cry all the time! Why would you hurt the one you love? Why would you ever make the one you love feel so low and insulted? Why would you ever do anything or say things to hurt the one you love? I don't understand. I even cry looking at my beautiful baby girl when she's sleeping, she's such a blessing in my life, and I want to be strong and happy for her and I'm not. I've been losing my temper sometimes with her and nothing is her fault. I can't stop thinking about him. I don't want to be without him, I love him. I know who he truly is a great person, I know his loving ways but when it comes to me he loses self control of everything. I am taking everything one step and day at a time but what hurts me the most is that I BENT OVER BACKWARDS TO PROVE I NEVER DID ANYTHING AND NOT ONCE HAS HE FOUGHT TO HOLD US TOGETHER OR TO CHANGE AND SEE HIS WRONG DOINGS... I can't take the pain.

Morning VERYHURT - check out the posting under Arts & Leisure, Books & Literature, "Quotes the have influenced your life." It was a little forum that I started a while back and has definitely been a place to read encouraging little tidbits that help you through the day...

Check it out! :)