OK I rle rle like him him well love him we both love each other but he can't take the hint that, his old girlfriend doesn't want him anymore... wat do I do to get his head out of the clouds? Thanks

If he is still trying for her, how does that make you feel? Seems like you're playing second fiddle if I have understood correctly.

I already told him I'm not going to do this but he just... idk he convinces me to stay with him

Sorry you are going through this. It must be pretty hard to feel that if she changed her mind, then he would drop you for her.

Only you can decide how long you're willing to let that behavior go on.