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  • Jan 17, 2008, 06:23 PM
    kitten94515
    Overnight party. Yikes.
    I'm so scared. You may read my other questions. Well yes this is my first boyfriend and just letting you know I'm not stupid. But were going to an overnight party. Yes I'm 13. But nowadays they are normal. But I will be with a ton of friends. And some ofamily members. And my boyfriend. YIKES. I am so scared. Give me advice, any kind. Please? :p :( :)
  • Jan 17, 2008, 10:56 PM
    in a state
    Why are you scared?it's a party.you're going to be surrounded by people you care about,dancing,making jokes,playing games.this means having a good time,right?
    And this means building up new memories :)
    Don't worry so much about it
    You'll get the chance to introduce your boyfriend to everyone,there's going to be a lot of socializing,laughs,impressions to discuss with your girlfriends,etc
    If you're afraid he might see this party as an opportunity to make out and stuff like that,and you don't want to,I don't think you should panic.I don't think he'll try anything if there are your family members in the house,it could be intimidating.you're safe :)and anyway,there's always the answer ''no,I can't do this,I don't feel it now'',or whatever is on your mind.
    Try to relax,thinking so much about it and imagining things are keeping you tense and it may stop you from enjoying yourself
    Float like a butterfly&have fun
  • Jan 18, 2008, 09:50 AM
    HistorianChick
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by in a state
    float like a butterfly&have fun

    AWESOME answer!

    Don't be scared. Be yourself. Enjoy the party. Enjoy spending time with your boyfriend. Have a blast. Don't do anything you're not comfortable doing. Dance. Eat. And, before you know it, its morning and you'll wish you had more time!

    Have fun!! :)
  • Jan 22, 2008, 02:20 PM
    kitten94515
    Thanks you two.
    Your life savers.
    And yeah.
    I DID have a ton of fun at the party.
    :D
  • Jan 22, 2008, 02:23 PM
    HistorianChick
    YAY!! I'm glad.

    Floating like a butterfly is always good advice... no matter the situation. If you can remember that, you'll grow up well-adjusted, amazingly popular in the eyes of the people who matter, and above all, HAPPY.

    Thanks for letting us know! :)

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