Wedding invitation ettiquette
My fiancé and I have an issue on our hands. During a trip to visit my brother in NYC last May, we met his "current" girlfriend. My fiancé and I were horrified at her conduct. She did nothing but constantly swear, interrupt all conversations so that she could be heard, and was in constant need for attention. She was quite loud and obnoxious. My fiancé and I thought for sure my brother and her would no longer be together so we thought our concern of her at our wedding would be gone. However, my brother and her are still together and I recently received a Christmas card from her stating how she was looking forward to the wedding. We really do not want to invite her. But at the same time, my family (parents and siblings) have cautioned against starting a family feud with my brother. The way my fiancé and I see it is this: it is our wedding, we are paying for everything, so no one has the right to tell us that we need to invite my brother's latest girl to our wedding. What is the proper thing to do here?
Thanks in advance!