I'm a bit worried about the extent I stare at girls, not just the really pretty girls because everyone stares at them but all the girls I see.
My g/f left for india for 6 months 3 months ago, and I was OK till recently, when I realised id been looking at girls like I had never done before, checking them out all the time.
I'm terrified every Thursday afternoon because we have pe at school and I can't help staring at all my girl friends getting hot and sweaty, it creeping me out big time.
What's worse is a few of them have got crushes on me (trying very hard not to sound big headed! ) and I'm worried that if I don't stop going crazy then they might get the wrong idea and try it on with me. I like them all as friends but if I can't control my wierdness I might upset them. Help me!:eek:

Someone has to be able to help me?. anyone?

Okay you seem desperate. First of all, how old are you?

15, I'm way too young to be having a breakdown I know but its litteraly driving me crazy, thank you for taking an interest

If you rely love your girlfriend than you shouldn't feel guilty because its normal feeling, she hasn't been around to be stared at by you. If you feel like 6 months is too long just take a break and mabey see other peple, but I'm srry, I don't have a great answr for this

You can stare. Don't touch.

Window shopping is fine.

You're halfway through the vacation time already, if you think you can handle yourself for the last 3 months then wait for your girlfriend if you really like her.

Its so natural for you to be looking at other girls at your age especially if you don't think your "inlove" maybe your girlfriend is not the one for you... do you think if she was around you would still be going this crazy with looking at other girls?. maybe your just craving attention from a girl any girl since your girlfriend is not around...

I am in love with this girl. And love is not a word I throw around a lot, there is no chance of me straying at all but I am worried about the girls I know, who have already tried it on a few times and might see g/f being vacant as an opportunity. Thank you all for the support, that's prob all I need

Love isn't a word you throw around a lot... quite possibly because you... haven't had much of a chance to... at the age of 15.. . I'm 21. I threw the L word at one girl.. . ever.

How I mean is the way I hear girls who have a new man every few weeks and they say they love them. But your right I haven't been aruond very long and I'm very very lucky

I think most guys stare at girls, all girls, a lot at your age. I certainly don't think you're alone in this. Your body's adjusting to all the new chemicals rushing around your system, I think it's natural and you shouldn't be too worried about it.

Aye yeah I know but I didn't stare this much before

Relax. I stare at women something like... 12 hours a day. I leave 6 hours for sleep, 6 hours for eating/bathroom time. The rest, all women.

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Originally Posted by raggablue

aye yeah i know but i didn't stare this much before

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Exactly, you're changing. It's a natural change and it's okay to be confused about it. Just know that it's natural.

But its holding me back, I have coursework and I'm supposed to be taking A level art, all this is harder when all of a sudden my teachers look like models in my eyes

I think that you should tell these girls to back off
Talk to them about your assume girl friend
They should get turned off by the love and comitment you show
That should keep those little hoes in place

U need to see your girlfriend because you have no one to focuz on so your all like oooo look a girl ooo look another one