My husband has accused me of cheating for 9 years and I have heard that he has went out on me. He drinks does drugs. We don't talk much. He has accused me of his friends and my brothers friends an my boss man. I have 2 kids. I feel like I have lost all respect for him. We don't kiss period.

First, although unpleasant, is the accusation true?

Second - You've heard, how do you know that you heard the truth?

Third, drugs and alcohol - GET OUT BEFORE YOU GET HURT!