My husband is 59 yrs old and apparently fathered a child out of wedlock to with a woman that was approximately 21 yrs of age and first name of "Jane" in St Louis Mo. He has health issues that she should know about and also would like to ask forgiveness for what he did to her mother and her so many years ago. Friends had said that the girl gave the child up for adoption but he believes this girl actually kept the child only known as "Baby Jane" My husband is in poor health and I would like to find this girl ONLY if she wants to find her father too. I don't want to interfere in her life in anyway but if she too is looking for her biological father I want her to know where he is. We don't have a lot of money due to the medical bills but we really are looking for some sites we can go to, to search for her if she too is looking for him. Any suggestions. He's not proud of his past and would like to make peace with her if she wants to know her father.:confused:

I am adopted from Thailand.I was adopted by an Australian couple and have been in Australia ever since.I have since found my birth mother and I;m still searching for my birth father.I am on an adoption site which has 'adult adoptees like myself' on there.their is also some birth parents on their.these people are from all over the world.This may be a good starting point for you.Best wishes

The site is adult adoptees org... they are beautiful people and you never know who you will meet on there.

The site above is a great site, as is adoption.com, whose reunion section is HUGE.

You might also try to leave a message in the courthouse of the county she was born, in case she ever goes searching for her original birth certificate. Some counties charge for that, some don't. But basically, it's just a note that you give permission for her to contact you, and that you do not hold anyone liable for giving out that information.

Typing the words "free adoptee search" in Google gets dozens of hits, but I have not researched them personally, as my adoption situation is an open adoption.