Hi have been with him for 9 year's and he is still living of me. I have a disabled son he's 10. And he will not help with anything. Any money he makes he keeps to himself, he plays out still and he's 44. Its always my mate my mates. He lives on his computer while I do the shopping the house work and see to my son that is 24/7. he has cerebral palsy. He moved in with F all and he thinks he can take everything that I have. Please help my head is in bit's