Hi I am writing this to ask for some advice my son who is only 14 and he is very aggressive and he is on cannibis and he got arrested today and they told me to find some councilling for him as they think it is to do with his dad dying 4and a half years ago but I didn't think it was so could you give me some advice please please he has drug dealers after him for a 1000 pound and he has had a gun up to his head twice and we got the police involved but my son is not very forthcoming and he has been beat up 11 times its getting worse am I a rubbish mum as at the minute I feel crap