Wedding Anniversary but separated
My wife separated from me some three years ago. She is now living with another guy. We are not yet divorced, and neither of us are in any hurry to do so. Last year we formally separated ("legal separation") and I paid her out half the value of our relationship-property.
We don't communicate at all except if something needs discussing. But I can't deny I still have feelings for her, even still love her, we were together for 33 years before trouble struck.
Today is our 37th Wedding Anniversary. I want to send her a text message to mark the day. After all, we ARE still married. But I don't know if I should, and if I did, what would I say?
I'm not trying to woo her back, just want to say that I still remember the good times. I would take her back if she wanted to come back.
I am not in any relationship, my work is too busy for that. Help! :confused: