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  • Jan 14, 2008, 04:39 PM
    kitten94515
    First boyfriend
    I just got my first boyfriend. I am so nervous in front of him... and everything... any advice? :p
  • Jan 14, 2008, 07:38 PM
    Grand Chilokar
    Maybe your not close enough to him yet, try talking to him face to face rather than on the phone.if you do that you will become less nervous ;)
  • Jan 14, 2008, 08:13 PM
    skyprincess
    Be yourself. :)
  • Jan 15, 2008, 10:03 AM
    HistorianChick
    Mark Twain said something once that is perfect (I'm sure you've heard it before, but here's a little reminder)...

    "Dance like nobody's watching; love like you've never been hurt. Sing like nobody's listening; live like it's heaven on earth."

    I agree with skyprincess... be yourself. No matter what happens, be yourself. Be true to you. And, have fun! This is exciting! :)
  • Jan 15, 2008, 10:06 AM
    ScottGem
    How old are you?
  • Jan 15, 2008, 01:40 PM
    skyprincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem
    How old are you?

    It doesn't matter how old she is; she is obviously pretty young given the fact it's her first BOYFRIEND: she has all the advice she needs - like the previous girl said, dance like nobody is watching, sing like nobody is listening... all she needs to do is to be herself =) oh, and also, not to be clingy :) let him have guy nights and what not... <3 and she will do JUST fine :) also, honesty and trust is key.
  • Jan 15, 2008, 01:46 PM
    ScottGem
    Im sorry but age does have a bearing here. Just look at what you are saying about guys nights out and stuff. If she is 10-12 having a boyfriend means different things then when you are 15-16. If you don't understand that, you have no business giving advice in this area.
  • Jan 15, 2008, 01:58 PM
    raggablue
    [QUOTE=skyprincess]It doesn't matter how old she is; she is obviously pretty young given the fact it's her first BOYFRIEND[QUOTE]
    Just because it her first boyfriend doesn't mean she is necessarily very young. Some women don't get boyfriends till they are 17/18. Scottgem is right, it does matter how old she is, the advise we give her differs dramaticaly depending on her age
  • Jan 15, 2008, 02:05 PM
    spitvenom
    Find something you both have in common (music, movies, TV shows, a class you both take) Then you can start a conversation with that. This will help you be a little less nervous. Good Luck and welcome to the Wacky world of dating.
  • Jan 15, 2008, 02:22 PM
    raggablue
    Don't get angry now, scottgem prob just forgot
  • Jan 15, 2008, 06:25 PM
    kitten94515
    Thank you skyprincess. (;
    Actually for reading my profile.
    Lol.
    And thank you everyone.
    Even though there was arguing it helped.
    :D
    Keep on answering. (:
    And yes I am 13 and a guys night out to my boyfriend is like... hmm.
    Watching TV?
    Haha. I don't know. Lmao.
    Oh and before I get this question.
    My boyfriend is turning 15 in 4 months (:
  • Jan 15, 2008, 06:27 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by raggablue
    don't get angry now, scottgem prob just forgot

    I didn't forget, but since so few people put age in their profiles, I didn't bother to check.

    To Kitten,

    You have gotten good advice so far. Just remember that dating is about getting to know each other that's the most important thing. Its not about physical things.

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