I am not in a relationship yet, but I might be real soon

I would like to know some signs of a bad relationship, because I got out of one back in July, we were dating for a year and a half( a year and a half ill never get back)

And you would think that since I was in one, I would recognize the signs but I was sprung, really sprung early in the relationship and I didn't relaize it was a bad one until every time we saw each other we would have sex multiple times(no we didn't have sex in the earlier part of the relationship, just towards the end)

OK its kind of simple.. I know I'm new but this is great advice, I actually use it myself. If you feel sexual urges within the first 2 months and have sex, even once, your relationship is going to suffer/ if you have sex near the end of the relationship, it means that you (without realizing) knew your relationship was over and you wanted to justget it as much as possible before it ended. But if you AND your partner are conservative with sex at any point in the relationship, it will last longer. For example:

Sally- want to have sex tonight

John- well, OK

Sally- but its just once tonight right?

John-well, I'm really excited tonight so I can't garentee..

Sally-than maybe tomorrow...

John-but why?

Sally-ill wait till your ready to do it once

John-... ok I get it( either hell break up with you which means he's no good for you anyway or he'll be a good boyfriend and wait. Basically that's how to solve you're problem.

That is good adivce, remembering as much as I could, the frist 3months was good then after we did it for the first time, it slow stared to go down hill

There's no problem in having sex multiple times in one day. It's only bad if 1. You don't want to be having sex multiple times with him, or 2. You don't talk enough. My boyfriend and I have sex multiple times whenever we see each other, but we talk a lot. As long as there is a significant amount of communication in your relationship and the physical and the verbal communication is balanced, there is no harm in it. And as for "if you feel sexual urges within the first 2 months and have sex, even once, your relationship is going to suffer", I disagree. I had sex within the first 2 weeks and my relationship is just fine, but I knew I "Gave it up too early" but I knew I could trust him so there weren't any negative repercussions in having sex as early as we did. Hope this helps.

-Laura.

Some signs are he wants you to cater to him but he won't do anything for you
Lazy, procrastinates, irresponsible
Treats his friends with more consideration than you
He acts sneaky
Acts defensive
Blames everything on everybody else even when it is his fault
Acts like since he is the guy you bow to him
Acts jealous, insecure, accusing
Criticizes-negativity
Moody-mood swings