Hey guys. This might sound kind of creepy but I'm having weird dreams which really disturbs me.
I have a boyfriend (name is Mike) and I love him like crazy. Like a month ago he introduced me to a friend (named Luke) who came from abroad for his holidays. And we all hang around often.
But I can swear I don't have any feelings for that guy but now its been 2 weeks since I have been dreaming about him in my sleep almost every night. And in my dreams we have a secret affair behind my boyfriend's back. And I see myself talking to him about things which I don't talk to my boyfriend about.
And when I wake up I feel so guilty, that is the worst part like as if I been really cheatin on Mike. And now even when we all hang around, I can't let my eyes meet Luke's. I feel so bad. But I know those are just dreams.

How can I avoid dreams?? Can you please help me with this one? I'll help you with anything if you'll help me get rid of these dreams. Please.. I feel so guilty...

I don't know of a way to avoid dreams but if you talk to your man, make sure to tell him it will never happen, and work out what it is that's prompting these dreams

If you feel so guilty than just tell your boyfriend... if he loves you so much than he wouldn't judge you and would understand you... thatz what a relationship is about not keeping secrets from each other but being truthful.
GUD LUCK!
p.s I'm sure those dreams would go away if you just tell him... it'll rid all that guilt and bad dreams from your head. Trust me ; )

They're just dreams. Dreams (some might disagree) from a scientific viewpoint, means nothing. They're just flashes of images in your head.

Tell your boyfriend. You'll feel MUCH better afterwards. And your boyfriend should understand that they're just dreams.

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Originally Posted by nomatter

hey guys. this might sound kinda creepy but im having wierd dreams which really disturbs me.
i have a boyfriend (name is Mike) and i love him like crazy. like a month ago he introduced me to a friend (named Luke) who came from abroad for his holidays. and we all hang around often.
but i can swear i don't have any feelings for that guy but now its been 2 weeks since i have been dreaming about him in my sleep almost everynight. and in my dreams we have a secret affair behind my boyfriend's back. and i see myself talking to him about things which i don't talk to my boyfriend about.
and when i wake up i feel so guilty, that is the worst part like as if i been really cheatin on Mike. and now even when we all hang around, i can't let my eyes meet Luke's. i feel so bad. but i know those are just dreams.

how can i avoid dreams??? can u please help me with this one? i'll help you with anything if you'll help me get rid of these dreams. please.. i feel so guilty...

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Well I know that you can't "avoid" your dreams, I have very weird dreams like that a lot to. I used to talk to my boyfriend about them and he would listen and believe what I said, but I still kept having dreams, so I started to every night before I went to bed Watching something funny on TV or listening to my favorite songs, or talking to my boyfriend before I went to bed. That way you won't have dreams about his friends. Worked for me... hope this or one of the other ones help for you!