Ok... A friend of mine, one of my best friends, recently confessed he had feelings for me a couple of years back... we talked all night and I asked how he felt about me now and he said he wasn't sure:confused: so I thought "ok fair enough" and didn't push it. Everyone starts telling me we'd look good and be good together. Thing is, we got to talking more and I started falling for him... again... thing is, I go for sleepovers at this friend's house and he comes too. But anyhow... another night spent talking to tim as he lay in my lap and he confesses "If I was to marry any one, it'd be someone like you." (the next night it was "I would love to spend the rest of my life with you.") We talk more and more and well... I won't go into it all, but some intimate stuff happened... and I asked him why we weren't dating, he said the only reason was because we weren't totally sure about how we felt. I asked if we ever would and he said that we would, and hopefully soon. I'm the only girl to get as close to him as I am. Thing is... I've made up my mind, I have a serious Jones for this guy, I love him to bits. Buy.. thing is, he hasn't made up his mind yet, and I'm starting to get anxious, I've told him how I feel, I've told him "no pressure because we'll always be great friends!", and we always will be, but, see... I'm getting worried, because I feel like maybe my hopes have been raised a little. So what I'm asking is... what do you guys think? Does he like me too? Because it's driving me insane!!
Thanks a bunch guys, love to you all!

Well, he obvioulsly feels something, but without wanting to judge him too harshly, he may be saying what he thinks you need to hear if he's only after one thing... BUT I don't know him so that might be wrong.

I would back off a little, don't be intimate, don't worry, let him do the chasing. He knows how you feel, the ball's in his court. Relax, don't pressure him and don't ask him how he feels. Remember you are a prize and he should be trying to win you, you shouldn't be trying to persuade him to like you. You sound like a lovely person, just enjoy yourself and be comfortable in your own skin independently, there's nothing more attractive than that!

Well... he's really not that kind of guy, I'm one of his best friends so I know what he's like... he's a very shy person, generally pretty honest. And when I say intimate I mean very low level intimate >.< heh, he's too shy and I'm not willing to do that kind of thing outside of a relationship...

Thank you though!