I've read the post 'what to expect when you get dumped'
All about breakups
It was great! But I still have something to ask...
One of my boyfriends was.. lets say... my first love, awww I know, but after we broke up, the pain never left me, we stayed friends, friends with benefits and then went back to being friends again.
We talk to each other nearly everyday, through email, and 99 per cent of the time- he starts talking to me!
But I'm starting to wonder if this is justa bad idea becos I get kind of p***ed off when he mentions his new girlfriend although its been months since we broke up and I've been with other men too
We had a unique relationship I mean we just had this spark that I can't explain but we were such different people that it had to end. He sometimes mentions things to me like 'ur the only girl I ever loved' but he'll go on to say ' me and the new girlfriend, we never fight like me and you used to, its sooo great'
Or on other days we'll be talking away and I'd ask him something like what's up? And SOMEHOW he'd say anything that mentions his new girlfriend in the sentence, I might be paranoid but is he trying to make me jealous? Or act more like a friend now?
I'm not trying to say 'HES THE ONE' or anything crazy like that...
But he knows just as well as I do that we had something special
It just wasn't the right time for us to be together
I was way too immature and he was interested in partying and going out while I wasn't at the age where I could!
Do you think we might sometime have a future
As its driving me crazy!
Id never try steal him off his girlfriend though,
Id like to date around for a while or have a bit of me time
And I'm not saying id wait around for them to break up or anything
Just wondering if sparks go out?:(
Could someone please give some advice?:)
I'd really like someone else's opinion