How can you handle a relation with a married man

If you are married to him, handle it with love
If YOU are not married to him, do not handle it
Would you want your husband to be with someone else?

Normally get your money first before you sleep with him,

1.If he is married to someone else Dump Him. That's the best advice I have.

2.If you are married to him... post more I'll help you all I can

You don't need to handle a relationship with a married man.
Hand him back to his wife.