I have been having these thoughts for sometime I never use to think about being bisexaul or never wanted to be but lately I been having these signs which leads me to think I am as I have this friend she's really pretty and bubbly and I can't seem to stop thinking about her I use to think she liked me to as we've kissed passionately a few times but then she claims it was the alcohool so I do the same none of my family or friends no I feel like this neither does she I want to tell her but afraid to as I'm scared it may ruin our whole friendship WHAT SHELL I DO!!

If the girl is using alcohol as a excuse mayb that person is as confused as you and you should try going to a couple of gay bars to find out if this is really what you want if so, then go for it if not stop kissing her. And start kissing other girls who won't deny their sexuality

If she went to kiss you first then she may well feel the same. Try a passionate kiss WITHOUT alcohol and if she gets into it ask her if you can take it further and if she says no say it was just abit of fun,

I recently had a similar experience, if she kissed you back there prob is something in it, you have two options, talk to her about it or try and chill just you two on your own and see if anything happens; solve all problems. If nothing does happen, then you can move on, its stupidly hard when you like your mates, and its hard to find someone to like who isn't your friend because not many people tend to be openly bi/gay when your young. But if its not reciprocal, you just got to move on. Good luck matey :)

Look just ask her if she diggs girls and get a move on with your life cause seriously you need to no if she likes and I'm almost certain she dose cause as it happens there's a saying "a drunk girls lips are a sowbers girls desiere" so take a chance and have some fun and good luck!!

[QUOTE=georgii-babes]I have been having these thoughts for sometime I never use to think about being bisexaul or never wanted to be but lately I been having these signs which leads me to think I am as I have this friend she's really pretty and bubbly and I can't seem to stop thinking about her I use to think she liked me to as we've kissed passionately a few times but then she claims it was the alcohool so I do the same none of my family or friends no I feel like this neither does she I want to tell her but afraid to as I'm scared it may ruin our whole friendship WHAT SHELL I DO!!

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Originally Posted by lolly13

look just ask her if she diggs girls and get a move on with your life cause seriously you need to no if she likes and i'm almost certain she dose cause as it happens theres a saying "a drunk girls lips are a sowbers girls desiere" so take a chance and have some fun and good luck!!!

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Only a desperate man could have made that one up

Well Depending on how close you are with her just think about it.. if She's a close friend to you then she will understand if you sit down and talk to her about it Without freaking her out I don't think it would be smart to kiss her again Like a lot of people have been saying Because you might piss her off (no offence) just talk to her about how you feel Because if she's a good friend then she will Understand and she will help you out or Maybe she will also feel the same you do :)

TehGoodlife1996 is in the same situation.