I know he has feelings for me... we work together, so I have to see him everyday... this has been going on for 2 1/2 years. I feel like just a booty-call-f**k buddy anymore. He is married. I have to hear about what 'they' did over the weekend and blah, blah, blah. I have tried explaining to him about how I feel like just a whore and that is the furthest thing that I am. I have been putting him off for 3 weeks now and he keeps of pursuing me about coming over. Doesn't help that he absolutely turns me on. Today he wrote me a note that said 'I want you really bad'. God, I want him too but for my own well being I just don't know anymore. I don't want to hurt him and don't know what to do anymore. He is extremely unhappy at home so I don't know why he still talks about her and takes her places. Help me someone please. He has never even asked me out on a date... just sex... what can I do to make him take it to the next level?