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  • Jan 3, 2006, 12:59 AM
    sphyncx
    Distance
    Hey all, it's me again. Has been a busy life since I was last on here so... with that said.

    Ever since me and the girl I was seeing broke up in late July... I educated myself on relationships and dating. I pretty much was a date-a-holic... and I eventually got tired of what I was doing because of the girls I was meeting. I stopped looking completely and eventually met some nice ones, but those never completely pulled through. Now I've know this girl since August... just as a friend... and something happened early December (more talking, getting to know each other... and her being upset and mad at me when I said I had a date to go to... "how can i possibly like a guy that likes 40 other girls") and then we started to date. Yesterday I asked her about "us" and she said she "really likes me, thinks I'm the most amazing guy she has ever met, and would love to go out with me but since we live an hour away from each other... the little things she can't do bother her. Like come over for 30mins after work or just come to see me to give me a hug... etc etc. Lately things on her side have been kind of passive... but that's in my eyes. Her phone broke on Wednesday and has yet to get another one, so I haven't talked to her on the phone at all since, just online on occasion. Nothing has changed... we're still going to be doing the same things we have before and see where that goes... I guess. I plan on going to the college which happens to be like 10mins away from her house next school year and there is always the summer time. She goes to school during the day till 3 and goes to work at 4 till 10ish... pretty much every day literally.

    So what do you think I should do? I really do like this girl a lot and am willing to wait things out and support her with whatever it is she needs. And she SAYS all those things to me... but never seems to follow up on it... I guess.
  • Jan 3, 2006, 11:27 PM
    sphyncx
    Bumpppppppp
  • Jan 4, 2006, 05:08 AM
    fredg
    What to do
    Hi,
    Just hang in there.
    You never know what is going on sometimes, until you give it enough time. Keep in touch with her.
  • Jan 4, 2006, 07:39 AM
    nymphetamine
    Just keep in touch with her like fred says. Talk to her about what is going on. There could be something that she is dealing with and maybe you can help her.
  • Jan 6, 2006, 12:14 PM
    sphyncx
    Eh, I figured I had to wait... thanks for the input... anyone else?

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