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  • Jan 7, 2008, 01:57 AM
    MightySlim13
    Could the child be mine?
    All right here goes. My girlfriend had been of her birth control for two maybe three weeks. We had sex on the 20th or 21st of Oct 07 but I did not ejaculate in her then. The last time we had sex was on Oct 22nd of 07 and I did in her then. She said that she was just starting her period but I didn't notice any blood what so ever. Shortly after this she left me. She came back to me about a month later. What she didn't tell me was that after she was gone for a little of two weeks she had sex once with another guy. When she came back she found out a couple of days later she was pregnant. She checked because she was a couple of days late. She found out she was pregnant. When we went to the first Dotors appointment on the 27th of Dec. they told her she was 7 weeks 1 day. She should have been 9 weeks and 3 days if it was mine. They also told her that the conception date was the 20th of Nov. This only works out to 6 weeks. I've heard that ultrasounds that early can be two weeks off. I don't know what's going on and would like to know if there is at least a good chance the baby is mine. I really want it to be the father.

    When she had sex with the other guy she was unprotected and the guy came inside her. From her period schedule she couldn't have become pregnant then. Also we got back together on the 26th of Nov. and had sex that day and I came inside her. We also had sex the next couple of days all times I came inside her. Figureing those dates it would have been 5 weeks from the first date we were back together to the date of the doc. appt. The lady doing the ultrasound made a comment about the yolk sac which I thought left after the 5th week. But she still said it was 7 weeks 1 day. I want to get the DNA test but right now she isn't talking to me. Could she be confused with not knowing and just wants to be left alone. She did tell me that she really wants it to be mine.
  • Jan 7, 2008, 12:24 PM
    macksmom
    With her having sex with 2 different men within a months time, the child could be eithers. The only way you will know for sure is by DNA results once the baby is born.
  • Jan 7, 2008, 12:28 PM
    peggyhill
    I agree with macksmom. A DNA test is your best bet. It's hard to tell.
  • Jan 7, 2008, 12:50 PM
    harezy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MightySlim13
    Alright here goes. My girlfriend had been of her birth control for two maybe three weeks. We had sex on the 20th or 21st of Oct 07 but I did not ejaculate in her then. The last time we had sex was on Oct 22nd of 07 and I did in her then. She said that she was just starting her period but I didn't notice any blood what so ever. Shortly after this she left me. She came back to me about a month later. What she didn't tell me was that after she was gone for a little of two weeks she had sex once with another guy. When she came back she found out a couple of days later she was pregnant. She checked because she was a couple of days late. She found out she was pregnant. When we went to the first Doctor's appointment on the 27th of Dec. they told her she was 7 weeks 1 day. She should have been 9 weeks and 3 days if it was mine. They also told her that the conception date was the 20th of Nov. This only works out to five weeks. I've heard that ultrasounds that early can be two weeks off. I don't know whats going on and would like to know if there is at least a good chance the baby is mine. I really want it to be the father.

    Mate unfortunately your miss`s and the doctors could be wrong, also you can't believe every thing your miss`s says,(mine ex always kept telling me that the baby was`t mine all the way through till after the birth). She was fooked up.. but I knew that it was mine I don't know why but I just did... once the baby is born you can demand a DNA test, But this will cause a lot of tension between you and your partner.. all I can say really is sit down with your partner and just tell her how your feeling and that if there is anything to tell you,
    She should tell you now! (ask if she had SAFE sex with that other guy)!and I mean safe, because miss perception is that you only get someone pregnant if you ejaculate. But no, even before and after, keep that weapon away from any fanny... hope all goes well. PS my little girl is the splitting image of me so things can and do end well...
  • Jan 8, 2008, 11:14 AM
    harezy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MightySlim13
    Alright here goes. My girlfriend had been of her birth control for two maybe three weeks. We had sex on the 20th or 21st of Oct 07 but I did not ejaculate in her then. The last time we had sex was on Oct 22nd of 07 and I did in her then. She said that she was just starting her period but I didn't notice any blood what so ever. Shortly after this she left me. She came back to me about a month later. What she didn't tell me was that after she was gone for a little of two weeks she had sex once with another guy. When she came back she found out a couple of days later she was pregnant. She checked because she was a couple of days late. She found out she was pregnant. When we went to the first Dotors appointment on the 27th of Dec. they told her she was 7 weeks 1 day. She should have been 9 weeks and 3 days if it was mine. They also told her that the conception date was the 20th of Nov. This only works out to 6 weeks. I've heard that ultrasounds that early can be two weeks off. I don't know whats going on and would like to know if there is at least a good chance the baby is mine. I really want it to be the father.

    When she had sex with the other guy she was unprotected and the guy came inside her. From her period schedual she couldn't have become pregnant then. Also we got back together on the 26th of Nov. and had sex that day and I came inside her. We also had sex the next couple of days all times I came inside her. Figureing those dates it would have been 5 weeks from the first date we were back together to the date of the doc. appt. The lady doing the ultrasound made a comment about the yolk sac which I thought left after the 5th week. But she still said it was 7 weeks 1 day. I want to get the DNA test but right now she isn't talking to me. Could she be confused with not knowing and just wants to be left alone. She did tell me that she really wants it to be mine.

    You just answered your own question... you said you we not sure if she knew who the farther was? The last thing you said was .
    "She did tell me that she really wants it to be mine"... mate you going to av to wait and demand a DNA test. If it`s born and looks like just like you (good chance you will tell in your heart) then that's your answer... oh and I was once told that a women can get pregnant even if she`s on the blob!! Because the period is the old egg.. there's already a new on in it`s place, I'm 99.9% sure that's correct, was told by a friend who`s a midwife..
  • Mar 13, 2008, 11:26 AM
    sweetcatastrophe
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MightySlim13
    Alright here goes. My girlfriend had been of her birth control for two maybe three weeks. We had sex on the 20th or 21st of Oct 07 but I did not ejaculate in her then. The last time we had sex was on Oct 22nd of 07 and I did in her then. She said that she was just starting her period but I didn't notice any blood what so ever. Shortly after this she left me. She came back to me about a month later. What she didn't tell me was that after she was gone for a little of two weeks she had sex once with another guy. When she came back she found out a couple of days later she was pregnant. She checked because she was a couple of days late. She found out she was pregnant. When we went to the first Dotors appointment on the 27th of Dec. they told her she was 7 weeks 1 day. She should have been 9 weeks and 3 days if it was mine. They also told her that the conception date was the 20th of Nov. This only works out to 6 weeks. I've heard that ultrasounds that early can be two weeks off. I don't know whats going on and would like to know if there is at least a good chance the baby is mine. I really want it to be the father.

    When she had sex with the other guy she was unprotected and the guy came inside her. From her period schedual she couldn't have become pregnant then. Also we got back together on the 26th of Nov. and had sex that day and I came inside her. We also had sex the next couple of days all times I came inside her. Figureing those dates it would have been 5 weeks from the first date we were back together to the date of the doc. appt. The lady doing the ultrasound made a comment about the yolk sac which I thought left after the 5th week. But she still said it was 7 weeks 1 day. I want to get the DNA test but right now she isn't talking to me. Could she be confused with not knowing and just wants to be left alone. She did tell me that she really wants it to be mine.

    I don't know if I could be any help, but when they said she was 7 weeks prago, the baby is really only 5 weeks old. Cause the count from the time you had your last period, and you most likley get prago, 14 days after that. So I would say the baby is yours, but hey I'm no doc, or a dna test, I would get a dna test asap, and don't stress it cause then she is going to stress and that is a no go for the baby.

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