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  • Jan 4, 2008, 08:49 PM
    peachz1919
    When do you stop fighting for someone you love so much it hurts to breathe
    When do you stop 'fighting' for someone you love? How do you know when to give up?
    I am so much in love with a gentleman, and he's the best thing that ever happened to me, he's perfect (for me). I love him so very much. And he tells me at times that he misses me and still loves me, even when he's with someone else. How do I know if he really does, or if he just wants me to be around for him. Is he just 'loving' the attention from two different women, or does he truly love me. We dated for 7.5 months, and then he started seeing someone behind my back, actually moved her in, and she's called my cell phone, my daughter's cell phone, and left horrible messages on them. She's scaring me actually. Then, on New Year's Eve day, I drove by his place, just to get a 'warm fuzzy' cause I had talked to him and he was being really nice. The next thing I know she's accusing me of being to close to her, and I am supposed to leave him alone.
    I don't know. I guess I see all the signs, I just need someone to TELL me! Is that bad or what?
  • Jan 4, 2008, 08:52 PM
    starfirefly
    Well with the way I see it if he loved you as much as he says he doe sthan he would be with you and no other. And if he cheated on you than he's really not worth it
  • Jan 6, 2008, 05:00 AM
    Lostinlove
    I'm sorry but your getting played for a fool. Dang it hurt to breathe, I don't think he feel the same way you better find new medicine or something. By medicine I mean a new guy. You know what we’re all going to say and I bet all your friends are telling you the same thing but some how you can't let it go right?:confused:

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