Okay so I really like this guy and we kind of had a thing and then I find out he's talking about me to my friends and then I totally yelled at him and then recently I said sorry and he said it back. I would love to have a relationship with him but he's been crazy over this one girl for over a year and I really don't know what to do. I either want to get over him or be with him.. help!

I went through the same thing as you. I found it was easier to talk about it with someone or write about it. The way I see it is, I would talk to him, if he's understanding which is probably one of the main things you should look for hell talk to you too. Tell him how you feel.

He's different.serioulsy... like when we hooked up it was all me. And he's so weird! In a way though. Like one moment he's flirty and cute and sexy and the next he's quiet and acting friend like and I reallly don't think I should talk to him

Put the ball in his court and walk away. Don't wait for him either just go out on date and have fun. Life is full of problem, finding the opposite sex shouldn't be one of them. There like 100 billion people or something.

I really think you should tell him all this.
I would be like "what is your problem. You act like you like me sometimes and then act like were only friends. I just want to clear this up, what are we. Becasue if you dont, one of you might get the wrong idea"

How I deal with it is that I stop myself from liking him any more than a friend. (: It's easy once you make up your mind to do it. I reckon the guy acts this way because he's not really sure if he likes you that way yet.

Don't be his emotional slave! Walk away. If he likes you, he'll come running after you. I think.