I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we love each other very much but I have this one little problem that keeps me wondering about him. You see, I love kids and plan to have atleat 2 of them, preferably with him and I have told him this. The thing is, he has a child, which is not mine and his response to me was "I already have a child, I dont want another." Just because he has one doesn't make it fair for him to say that. Is that selfish and what should I do?