Yeah.. oke.. so.. There is 1 girl.. I met her about 2 years ago.. and I liked her.. like a guy likes all girls.. but the love began.. hm.. like 4 months ago.. we went to a disco.. and like from liking my feelings became more deep.. like madly in love with her.. I wrote her a poem,made her a card with her picture and wishes(wich I phought of myself ),I drew pictures of her.. help her with everything.. and 1 day.. I confessed in front of her(that was before the poem and stuff).. and she said.. "Oh,i didnt expect that..I never would have phought you of all people to be in love with me" and also I remembered she was from my kinder garden. So.. she said "Niki,we go out so rarely,why me of all people ?" I said " U can't tell the heart who to love." she : "Yes thats true.. oke look we'll go out some more.. and if i start to have feelings about you,ill tell u"... and I was like fine with that.. at least she didn't tell me to hit the road.. Soo.. the day before X-mas,she said she had a kind of erotic dream about me.. we were in a bed.. and I was talking about something and she was looking at me and listening.. and like 2 or 3 seconds later she came over me and start kissing my whole face.. (maybe I didn't quite tell it right.. but its a lot harder in english,than in bulgarian) So.. that made me sooo happy,like I never was so happy before in my entire life.. ( wich is only 16 years.. she is 17... that's the biggest problem.. ) SOo.. 1 day I got in Skype and asked her if thing were getting better.. if she felt love or at least like for me.. She answered.. that still nothing.. that she now knew me better like a person.. and she said that "From time to time.. when you do those kind and sweet thing for me (like the poem) i kinda like you,and in those times i really think something cloud happen between us.. but thats only for those moments"... So guys(girls) pleaseee help mehhh.. I want her so badlyy... I have never felt anything like this... I think of her all day and all night.. I forgot completely about myself.. the only thing in my head is she... Btw.. I am cute,a little bit short.. I'm only 1,66... modern.. fashionable.. funny(I have a gigantic sense of humor).. touchy(wich is not so good for a boy.. but hey I can't change it.. ) and many more good things.. maybe the baddest thing about me is because hm.. when I see other guys looking at her.. I mean dirty looking I get mad inside.. and hold the anger in me.. but that's jealousy.. Soo please help me.. OMG I wrote like 1000 words to express myself.. >< sorry if its too mutch..

... what?

Well, sad to say... I've been where you are. In high school, I followed a girl around for 2 years. Oof. Bad idea.

Girls like guys that chase them, but girls also like guys that make THEM chase him. Don't give your all. She will end up using you without her knowing. Make her work for you a little bit.

Haha I've been there too.

Just remember that you have to be yourself around her. If you're a good, honest person then you shouldn't change who you are to get the girl.

Besides, you never know what's going on in her mind, and from my experience, girl can be complicated creatures. Just try your best to read her feelings for you and act accordingly.

Just remember to consider your well-being as well. Don't focus completely on her and lose yourself on the way. Take good care of yourself, and good luck!

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Just remember to consider your well-being as well. Don't focus completely on her and lose yourself on the way. Take good care of yourself, and good luck!

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Right ! You are just 16. You have your entire life ahead of you. You'll get many chances to fall in love madly like this. Save yourself for the real girl, the girl of your destiny. Try to be a little bit reserved and composed. This girl will also notice that and appreciate it that you are maturing.

Thanks guys.. today I went out with her,her sister and cousins.. And I asked her sister if she can put up a good word about me.. she said she already has.. for her I'm the perfect guy for her little sister.. but the problem is I'm 1 year younger than she is.. and she likes older guys.. like around 20... She said if I was like 2 or 3 years bigger then I am now.. that makes me 17-18 she would have already be going out with me.. And I said to her.. when we're grown up 1 year doesn't metter.. but she said.. yeah but now it matters.. :(

Find something else to do, besides chase after someone who doesn't feel the same as you. Without a doubt she has no plans to return your love. Females do not fall in love with love sick puppies, so back off.

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.. that makes me 17-18 she would have already be going out with me.. And i said to her.. when we're grown up 1 year doesnt metter.. but she said.. yeah but now it matters.. :(

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You're definitely right! In the grand scheme of things, a year doesn't matter.

Just remember to focus on things you can change, and do your very best to accept what you cannot. Things like age are out of your hands, so don't beat yourself up over being a year younger than her.

If she truly likes you and appreciates the person you are, then age may eventually mean less to her. You never know.

Just give her time, keep your options open, and enjoy life!
_Gia

Yeah... just 1 grand problem... its like I have 2 people inside of me( me and another 1 ) Me: Dude we must give up,u saw what the expert guy said.. its probably true... Him: Shut the f*** up wussy,u are not a quieter.. we didn't do all those things about her for nothing.. just keep going to same way you have and you will succesed... And I don't know what to do... all my friends and the people from here tell me to give her time.. and I want to give her time.. but I am afraid that she will find another 1.. And it will not work the way it should.. ( I mean the thing about not seeing her or talking with her for some time)

There is a difference between quitting, when there is no way to get what you want, and accepting that someone doesn't feel the way you do. Either way you must move on, or look very foolish.