I have been seeing a guy for about 3 or 4 months after he left his girlfriend of 10years to be with me. He now is saying that the guilt of what he's done has caught up with him and he's too down to be what I want him to be. His ex keeps telling him it'll never work out with me and that he has ruined her life, and as a result he seems to feel even more guilty and is backing away from me. Last night I told him I felt I was unhappy and needed time to think as I felt like he wasn't enjoying things with me the way he should be. He keeps saying 'I've fallen for you so much'.
Does this mean love or something else?
We work together and today he's asked if I'm OK and apologised for upsetting me but otherwise can barely look at me.
I'm so confused. I think I should leave him be for a while until he sorts himself out but it's so hard when he's only up the corridor.
Please help
Many thanks
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