If you get raped is it classed as loseing you're verginity?

Unfortunately, yes. You have physically lost your virginity.

However--not having had consensual sex yet--I would say that mentally you would still be a virgin, and should have the considerations given any other virgin.

But physically--once there is penetration into the vagina, virginity is gone.

This was unfortunate and you are so brave to ask that question!
But I disagree with Syn.

You will have many firsts with an act- like kissing you will have first kiss in the rain, or that's takes your breath away; a first awkward kiss someone you like that you can't wait to have the next one to do better. You will get flowers but there will the first time you get flowers at work or the first red rose.

Hope, healing and happiness are my wishes for you.

And you