There's this guy who I've been in a relationship with 4 times! The 1st time we went out I dumped him then the 2nd time he dumped me and the 3rd time I dumped him and the last time he dumped me and I was extremely hurt because It was the longest we have ever lasted... Just last night I went to the movies with him and he cuddled me and it felt good to feel his arms around me again.. I think he likes me again and I sort of have feelings for him again... Should I give us just one last chance and see if this time works out?? Please give me your own opinion!

are you guys having a dumping match ? >>> you dump him.. he dump you.. you dump him.. he dump you? what next ? It your turn?.

by the way how old you guys ?

but before getting back with him... you should think about what the reason you guys broke up at the first place?. or should I say the last 4 time ? ^^ and are you happy while you in the relationship ?

And it's your turn to do the dumping this time? All that dumping makes it seem pretty trashy. Maybe you should consider it recycling??

What's your goal?

If it's a relationship you need to know what was wrong the first time (and second and third) and whether its "fixed"..

If you are just bored and want attention... its your call. Just don't be shocked if it ends badly again.

Not all relationships need to be about forever and forever.

You just need to do the math. Is the pain in the arse component worth it? Can you deal with more drama because its worth the noise?

But if you are interested in a more permanent relationship, you'd better figure out why this time is different than all the rest.

And its not cause he seems more interested.

Are you sure you want another round, you said the last time it hurt you, and as oneguy said it looks kind of trashy when you guys dump each other and then go back out, what is the point in that relationship. And think about how other people view that type of relationship, do you think a different guy you might like want to date someone that just dumps you then goes back out with you, cause I know I wouldn't

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Originally Posted by Simple Asian

are you guys having a dumping match ? >>> you dump him..he dump you ..you dump him ..he dump you ? .what next ? it your turn ? ...

btw how old you guys ?

but before getting back with him...you should think about what the reason you guys broke up at the first place ? ...or should i say the last 4 time ? ^^ and are you happy while you in the relationship ?

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I'm 14 and he's 15

dang 14 and 15 ? And broke up 4 time?.

but... ^^ it OK,, you have fun so much sooner T_T damn hahaha

so what about the question I gave you?. can you give me the answer ? ^^>... please so I can give you the next step if I can

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Originally Posted by Simple Asian

dang 14 and 15 ? and broke up 4 time ? ..

but ...^^ it ok ,,,,you have fun so much sooner T_T damn hahaha

so what about the question i gave you ? ...can you give me the answer ? ^^>.....please so i can give you the next step if i can

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No we're not having a dumping match it just happens like that and I am really happy when I'm with him but... I think I'm just going to let this one go because I know ill end up getting hurt again only way more than last time and I can't even imagine that being possible o I'm not going to worry about him anymore... there's this other guy I went out with once last year and god that was a good relatinship but I don't know why but I dumped him for my ex crush and I like him again and I think he wuld take me back well that's what he said when my friend asked him f he ever would so I don't know what to do anymore :(