I have an older brother.. (im 12 and he is 15) we argue about the most ridiculous things. He once spat in my face . I hate arguing with him as it gets me down and makes me really angry. It also makes my mom and dad really stressed... so I don't know whether I should just stay out of his way or talk to him and telll him how I feel .

SO what do I do to make HIM less argumentitive towards me... :confused:

My brothers one year older than me and we used to fight alot! But when you get older you stop fighting as much... and most brothers go through a phase were they make fun of their wee sister for small things.. my brother used to always call me emo but now he's grown up. And also my wee cousin is just about 12 and her brothers nearly 16 and I watch her brother making fun of her constantly, its horrible. In my opinion talking to him won't help much now, just try not to fight with him, like stay out of his way and don't prevoke him.

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Originally Posted by IheartEdward

My brothers one year older than me and we used to fight alot! But when you get older you stop fighting as much... and most brothers go through a phase were they make fun of their wee sister for small things.. my brother used to always call me emo but now hes grown up. And also my wee cousin is just about 12 and her brothers nearly 16 and i watch her brother making fun of her constantly, its horrible. In my opinion talking to him wont help much now, just try not to fight with him, like stay out of his way and dont prevoke him.

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Thankss... helps a lot :)

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Originally Posted by coolcourtney8

Thankss.....helps alot :)

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No Problem:rolleyes:

And if he tries to start a fight just be soooo cool be like 'whatever, I'm not in the mood'

What kind of things do you two fight about? It is normal for siblings to fight to a certain extent, but I think that him spitting in your face is uncalled for.

I think it would be good for you two to try and sort out the things that make you argue so much. Ask him what it is about you that makes him so mad, and you tell him what he does that makes you so mad. See if you can come to some kind of settlement, try and work out the things that make you angry at each other. It can't be fun for either of you, or your parents. Good luck and I hope everything gets better for you soon. :)

The best thing to do iz talk to him and tell him the way you fill tell him to undertand you cause you are a girl tell him to be more, more chantel with you the way he would be with his girlfriend if he has one.

I think you should talk to him and try to get things sorted out. I know that I don't have the best relationship with my brother but I know that you will probably do better than me so good luck