Should I forget about him?
I dated a guy for a year. To make a (very) long story short, when things were good, they were good... and when they were bad, they were bad. We have been broken up for over three months, but I still have so many thoughts of him. He's with a new girl, but I would do almost anything to be back together with him. I don't know what to do about this, however, because I would NEVER want to be the cause of them ending their relationship. Also, I'm not sure if being with him would be the right thing for me because while we were dating he would randomly tell me that he just wanted to be single and that he didn't want to be with me anymore... what's the deal with that! However, all my happiest memories involve him and I truly loved him with all of my heart.
I'm doing much better than I was when we initially broke up, but I am still having a hard time accepting reality and letting go! Should I try to somehow lure him back, or should I consider him gone? Any advice would be appreciated so much!