I got dumped by my fella because I said I would not have sex with him :mad: he said he will get back with me if I do it but he's underage and so am I. I was going to say OK but then he said that I have changed since I was attacked and now I'm shy and boring as if to say it was my fault wich really hurt my feelings :( should I do it and get him back he was the only person I could talk to and trust loveeeeee him? Sorry about spelling

Dude! He's a jerk! Forget about him, anyone who only wants to stay with you for sex is not worth it!
Find a nice guy who respects you, not the scumbag who is using you for sex.

Should you have sex to keep a boy who does not respect you? Hmm, tough choice huh?

Look hun, are you ready to be a mother? For the REST of your life? This is what happens when you have sex. And you know what? When you do tell him you are pregnant he will run as far from you as possible. He will tell you to get an abortion, or tell you to give it up for adoption... Those are just two possible things he will do.

You may think you love him, but love comes with age and maturity. I know, I know, you are mature for your age right? Well, apparently not very mature if you are thinking of sleeping with him just to keep him.

Another thing, he may just be out for a good time. As soon as you sleep with him, he will drop you like a dirty dishrag and spread rumors about how easy you are.

Tell this jerk to take a hike, you deserve better than him.

Thanks I now I should not take him bake but if I don't ill have no ne to talk to about serious stuff like eating and when I was attacked well he did later say if was my fault parable because it was maybe ill just have to let him go :(

You're thinking of having sex with a jerk so that you will have someone to talk to about food? Really?

Hun, how old are you?

13 ye he makes me eat and tells me I'm not fat I only believe it from his lips if it was not for him id still be relly ill due to not eating

You are 13 and you have eating problems and you are ready to be a mother? Remember, sex makes babies.

Hun, it sounds like you have some other issues that should be addressed prior to even considering sex. Have you talked to your mother about your eating disorder?

She know she seems to be shemed and like to pretend I'm normal she won't speck to me about it she dose not eat much her self

Hun, you are in the UK, it is 3 am there, I'm reading your typing... are you smoking weed again? Does your Mum know you are online in the middle of the night?

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I'm not smoking weed the man I went yesterday he's got none left my mum knows in up she's gone to bed

Then talk to a school counselor. You NEED to get help from someone who cares about you, not this jerk you think you love. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE talk to an adult about this.

Like most people say, he is a mega jerk.. what guy does that to a girl? Apart from jerks. Im sure you could do so much better. Good Luck