This question is entirely separate from my relationship question I asked. But I'm really confused here. I don't need special treatment. I don't need cards. I don't need gifts. I don't need anything really. I can tell when a girl loves me or not. The last one definitely loved me.

But I had a problem showing it in return. Saying it is hard... I don't think I've ever said it or meant it, until recently. But what are some things to do to show a girl how much she means to you? Or things to say?

Ty.

This sounds cheesy as all hell... but you'll know. When you're "in love" with a girl, it spews out of your pores like the pastrami you had for lunch. People can tell... by the way you talk to her, by the way you act towards her, hell, even the way you look at her.

Body language shows everything. If you don't know how to act, well... that's a tough one. It's like asking HOW DO YOU EAT WHEN YOU'RE HUNGRY?. it's... just there. You know.

Yeah... its basic instinct when it comes to manifesting your love. But maybe you need some pointers to start with.

A few simple things you can do to make sure she knows you care a lot are:

1) Bring her out with your friends so she will feel wanted in your life
2) Talk to her with sincerity (without formality and being shy), she will know you are trying to share your thoughts with her
3) Learn to hug her and hold her hands in public, she will feel exclusive
4) Appreciate the things she does for you or gives u (by this I mean... u have to use it, eat it, drink it, watch it, read it, smile at it etc. with all your heart and soul)
5) Do the little stuffs for her that show you are making a sacrifice for her, such as fetching her around when it is out of the way, buying her supper when it is late at night, calling her to chat when she is down etc.

FINALLY... please just LEARN to say I Love You. It is not hard to say it once you said it for a few times. But mean it when you say it.

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Originally Posted by lavenderly

FINALLY....please just LEARN to say I Love You. It is not hard to say it once u said it for a few times. But mean it when u say it.

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Also, don't use it if you DON'T mean it... YES you'll get a lot of girls to sleep with you. But it catches up. Trust me.

Paying attention, to start and you'll learn to read what she likes, and when and how. Love her like you want to be loved, and if you can't tell her show her. It helps a lot with the right girl though.

EYES, look her directly in the eyes, and if she holds your gaze. And smiles... you got it.

*Hold her, let her know you're there for her, not for sex.
*flirt with her
*small gestures, opening doors... stuff like that
*hug and kiss her at random momments just because you can
*tell her how you feel, whether you think it sounds good, at least you tried
*it sounds funny but show her off, to your friends.

more than anything the small stuff generally means the most...

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Originally Posted by talaniman

EYES, look her directly in the eyes, and if she holds your gaze. and smiles.........you got it.

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Sadly... girls nowadays, can actually do that... AND not mean a thing. They're learning tal. They're learning...

Man I really want to help you.. but hell I was too late everyone already answer.. and you no that they have the best answers of all the answer you can get... hope it work out ^^ and best wishes


but I still have one more... you be there with her and that all she need... and she no that you care about her and love her

You can treat a girl by saying good and nice things to her be nice to her tell her how special she is.

Don't ask for intimacy, don't be a jerk...

Well... depend on the women also, some women are the opposite! *shrug