What do I do, my boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me and now wants to take a break?
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Well I've been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend. We were very serious and I even moved in with him. Well lately he's been acting really strange and distant. And I found out Saturday by checking his myspace that he was meeting another girl at the mall. Well so I investigated this and found out that they started talking weeks ago and she's his old crush from high school. We've only had the internet for 1 month and this is what happenend. He also ran the phone bill up (wich I pay for) by texting her hundreds of times and went over his minutes. I am so hurt and confused right now. It seems like he wanted me to find out but why at christmas? :( he says for the past 3 months he's been wanting to break up. He's 20 (im 22) and says he's scared of being with one girl his whole life. But he claims he really loves and will never stop loving me. That I'm the girl he wants to spend his life with he just needs a break. What should I do? He says he doesn't want to date the girl (if he did I would never forgive him) but it just seems so coincidental that this all happens when he's cheating on me. He only talked to her a lot and kissed her once. He's never cheated on anyone before ever. And we've both been cheated on before. I saw that he told her he will forever regret not dating her in high school. I don't know what to do! I love him with all my heart but this is all just too much. Do you think he wants space or to date her or what? Is he to young for a serious relationship? Should I move on? Every guy I've ever dated always cheats on me. I'm a very attractive girl and couldve easily cheated on him but I didn't. Should I expect this? Do all guys cheat?::confused: