Originally Posted by N0help4u
I have learned to never burn your bridges but at the same time only bother with her as much as is necessary or as much as you can handle. I can't handle being with my mom more than a few hours a month so that is the most I tend to go around her.
Also don't let her know any of your business since she can't respect your personal life.
You might ask her how she can have the nerve to be a pot calling the kettle black.
My ex was like that always going around spreading exaggerated stories to people about others to make them look bad; yet made his evils come of smelling like roses. I asked him why he makes his crap smell like roses and other peoples roses smell like crap.
Don't be a doormat that is what she expects and why she figures she can pull what she pulls. The Bible never said to be an enabler and that is what you do when you let people get away with things.
Make her own up to the things she pulls. As long as you allow her to by not confronting her she will continue and be in denial that she is in any wrong herself.
I would remind her that she is the one that hurt you and your relationship with your bf has nothing to do with her. Ask her how she can judge you when she obviously has done the same and hers was done in adultery. Tell her if she wants Bible quoted she won't like it and you can start with the verse about casting the first stone.